把include包裹在linearlayout裡面就行了

    <LinearLayout
        android:id="@+id/head_select_view"
        android:layout_width="wrap_content"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:visibility="gone" >

        <include
            android:layout_width="match_parent"
            android:layout_height="45dp"
            layout="@layout/list_item_pop_select" />
    </LinearLayout>