I'm no expert, either. I've read some of the relevant literature when able, and I've experimented extensively with food and supplements. I also collect anecdotal evidence for the success and failure of different dietary regimes. I think it's especially instructive when your own chosen regime fails for other people. Caution is always warranted.

If you ask a toxicologist whether or not something can kill you, the reply will come swiftly: "How much?" Given the number of people that die each year from water toxicity, we clearly lack intuition regarding the answer. When it comes to fat (saturated fat, in particular), there clearly must be some upper limit before pathologies arise, but the question actually being debated is, "How little saturated fat should we consume?" Similar questions have been posed about cortisol and inflammation, two "obviously bad" things that, as it happens, we cannot do without.

From this standpoint, such debates are largely ideological, as contradictory evidence, discovered in earnest, for opposing viewpoints implies both must be wrong in some fundamental way. Scientists generally recognize this; enthusiasts and journalists, less so. This in no way means proponents are wrong about their observations. Rather, it means their conclusions--that is, the model through which they view their results--are somehow incomplete. This is where new science can shed the most light.

All of this is a long-winded way of saying I have no idea how to reconcile even the data I have seen because there's so much data I haven't read or don't understand. Besides, even experts are weary to give medical advice. And just because my blood work on a ketogenic diet looks fine, that doesn't mean your family history won't affect your own results on the same diet.

If you don't trust your physician to keep up on the latest nutritional science (Why would they?), you can at least work with them to monitor lipid panels while experimenting with your diet. Regular blood work every couple years can also alert you to drastic changes you might not otherwise be aware of. Just be sure to request complete copies of the data for your own records. Otherwise, you may only receive a list of notable results.

Best of luck to you.